Love is so enormous. And for ages, people have tried to express their love and finally, they felt they cannot. Even the great sage Narada said, ‘Anirvachaniyam prema swarupam’. You cannot express it. The nature of true love is that it is beyond expression. Love with wisdom is bliss. Love without knowledge or wisdom is pain. It is not the love that is giving you pain. If it is just pure love, that means you just care for someone, you want the best for them, and then there is no pain. But when you want something in return from them or you have demands from them, then there is pain.

爱情是巨大无限的。自古以来,人们尝试表达爱,但最终他们发觉他们做不到。就连著名智者Narada在梵文里说的,你不能明确的表达爱,因为爱情的本质超越所能表达。有智慧的爱是幸福的,而没有智慧的爱是痛苦的。其实不是爱情给我们带来痛苦。如果是纯真的爱,你会自然想要把最好的都给对方,关心他,照顾他。那就没有痛苦的成分。可是如果你付出了以后想要向他们索取,那就会痛苦。

Jealousy, hatred, greed, arrogance and attachment are all love’s distortions. Love by itself doesn’t bring misery. That is why knowledge and centeredness are so important. If you are centered, you can handle all these distortions, they come for a while and they disappear. Feelings are like clouds. They are like the waves on the surface of the ocean. They arise, they come and they go. Love is a gift. You can’t force anyone to feel love. Just relax. When you want love, that want itself is turning or delaying love from manifesting. So all that you need to do is to let go and relax. You will see your nature is love.

嫉妒,怨恨,贪婪,高傲,依附都是爱的扭曲。爱本身不会带来苦难,所以知识和自我认知很重要。如果你有自我认知,你就可以处理这些爱的扭曲的体现。它们只会出现一阵子,之后就消失了。感觉就想云雾,或海洋表面的浪潮,潮来潮去。爱是一份礼物。你不能够强迫任何人去感受爱,所以学会放下。当你想要爱,那份要求就会把爱搁得更远。所以你需要做的只是放下,放松。你会看到你的本性是爱。

Love is always there. It will manifest when it should. Like the sun is always there but it comes at its own time. In the same way, all the beautiful feelings in your life are there with you all the time. You can’t forcefully manifest them. They will manifest at different times in life. You cannot make an effort to love, either yourself or anybody. You simply have to relax and realize that you are love. Love is the shadow of the Self. The bigger the Self, the bigger the shadow, and the bigger the love. When the love is cast over the entire creation, then you are the Big Self. That is Lordship. When Lordship dawns on the Self, there is a perennial celebration.

爱向来都存在,它该出现的时候就会显现。就像太阳一直都在,只是它只会在特定的时间出现。同样的,生命中所有美好的感觉都无处不在。你不能强行要它们显现,但它们会在生命中不同的阶段,时间体现。你也不能执意的去爱你自己或其他人,你只需很轻松的了解和意识你就是爱。爱是自身的影子。自我有多强大,影子就有多大,而爱也随之变大。当爱被扩大至覆盖全宇宙的创造物,那你的自我是伟大无比的,既等于上帝般。当上帝之心降临于本我,那代表着永恒的庆典。